EXPECTATIONS hurt

' EXPECTATION '

What a NICE WORD THIS is !

But do YOU know 

The IMAGE THIS WORD has in a PERSON'S LIFE ?

I mean to say that 

Do YOU know WE have a VERY OLD and FAMOUS SAYING on THIS WORD 'EXPECTATION' which says

' TOO MUCH EXPECTATIONS only bring TEARS '  ?

What do YOU think GUYS ? Is it TRUE or just a RUMOUR ?

GUYS, IT'S not a RUMOUR. IT'S a FACT.  IT is 101 % TRUE that  

' TOO MUCH EXPECTATIONS only bring TEARS '

IT is a KIND of THING

Which makes DIFFERENCES

Which aparts  WAYS

Which brings TEARS

and SOMETIMES

Which causes DEATH

YOU know what GUYS, The BIGGEST BOON WE have got from GOD is what ? It is 

LIFE

And WE ALL know what LIFE is all about. As WE grow up in LIFE, WE start understanding LIFE. I mean, WE start learning LIFE. And the very FIRST THING WE learn in LIFE is

WE try to make IT BETTER and COMFORTABLE so that WE could live HAPPILY

It is FOLLOWED by

DREAM, AIM, RELATIONSHIP and MANY OTHER IMPORTANCE like THESE

And GUYS, WE ALL know VERY WELL

GOING through ALL THESE means GOING through EXPECTATIONS

What I mean that 

Coz MAN'S SATISFACTION has no END, HIS EXPECTATIONS keep growing TIME to TIME. But HE forgets 

EVERY EXPECTATION can't be FULFILLED

As a RESULT, WE take OURSELVES to

TOO MUCH EXPECTATIONS only bring TEARS

Yes GUYS, WE should not have LOTS of EXPECTIONS in LIFE. IT always HURTS.  Now the QUESTION raises here that

What is THAT which hurts OUR EXPECTATIONS a lot and makes US CRY ?

GUYS, it is very SIMPLE. It is OUR OWN TRUST which hurts OUR EXPECTATIONS and makes US CRY. What I mean that

WE trust a PERSON EXCESSIVELY

WE consider HIM OURS

WE make HIM a PART of OUR LIFE

WE give HIM a PLACE in OUR HEART

But WE forget 

The THINKING WE  have about THAT PERSON, HE can't have 

What I mean that

The TRUST WE show at HIM, HE fails in giving THAT back to US

Yes GUYS, WE forget EVERY PERSON can't have SAME THINKING. WE forget, HE has HIS OWN LIFE. WE forget, HE has HIS OWN WAYS to live HIS LIFE. And the MOST IMPORTANT THING WE forget 

As WE consider HIM a PART of OUR LIFE, HE will have ANY OTHER PERSON in HIS LIFE as well

THIS creates MISUNDERSTANDING. WE think WE give HIM IMPORTANCE and HE avoids US. THIS gives US a BAD FEELING. As a result, 

It hurts OUR EXPECTATIONS a lot and makes US CRY

YOU know what GUYS, HURTING EXPECTATIONS has TWO ASPECTS. ONE is 

SOME PEOPLE do THINGS DELIBERATELY so that THEY could make HIM JEALOUS but SOME really have SPECIAL PERSONS like US as WE consider to THEM

And the MOST INTERESTING THING is 

WE succumb to BOTH

So GUYS, never give MORE IMPORTANCE to ANYONE in LIFE. Place EVERYONE at ONE PLACE. The ONE 

who is DEAR to YOU

who loves YOU a LOT

who considers YOU a PART of HIS LIFE 

who gives YOU IMPORTANCE 

will definitely come to YOU. But don't force ANYONE to stay in YOUR LIFE and impose YOUR FEELINGS on HIM. If YOU learn THIS PRECIOUS THING, I am SURE YOU will never regret in YOUR LIFE. THIS is for SURE. GUYS, I have learnt THIS THING. It's time for YOURS now. Thank YOU. 

GUYS, At last I would like to tell YOU SOMETHING here. It is - 

HURTING EXPECTATIONS only belong to HUMANS not OTHER THINGS. THINGS like STUDY and DREAM

Yesterday SOMEONE asked ME

Do STUDY and DREAM belong to HURTING EXPECTATION ?

I REPLIED HER NO. I said 

If YOU do STUDY to YOUR EXPECTATION, It will never HURT YOU

If YOU dream to YOUR CAPACITY, it will never HURT YOU

I also REPLIED to HER that

BOTH depends on YOUR THINKING POWER. If YOU think, YOU can. If YOU don't think, YOU can't. That's it. 

GUYS, SUCH THINGS never HURT except ONE THING. IT is 

MAN 

So CONSIDERING EXPECTATION, keep YOURSELF away from MAN as much as YOU can. It would be BETTER for YOU. Thank YOU.